Since I was a child, whenever my father received guests, he would welcome them with water regardless of whether their character was good or bad. If he had his true friends or family over, he would also welcome me to come listen to their conversation. He would tell me about the characteristics and virtues of the guests, how he knew them and how they treated in their relationship. For example, this friend is a brave and honest soldier. This man is good in this regard, that regard, as he would explain to me.
As for the fair-weather friend or relative, when they make their visit, I came and served refreshments. My father would dismiss me after so I would not have the opportunity to listen to the conversation being held.
I kept this in my heart whenever I considered the qualities of a true friend. It was thanks to my father for teaching me the difference between a true friend and a fair-weather one.
January 3rd, 2018
