“Observant borrowing” means this: when you witness someone delivering a Dhamma talk with skill — dividing the content into well-structured passages at precisely the right moments, drawing upon causes, reasoning, and apt analogies of various kinds, in a manner that moves the listener to genuine understanding and heartfelt appreciation — take note of it and try applying it yourself.
However, bear one thing in mind: certain words and certain mannerisms that look and sound admirable in one person may not always suit your own character and disposition. Those that do not fit must be set aside. Whatever proves fitting should be adapted and applied with discernment. Throughout this process, maintain the habit of keen observation and practice with steady consistency.
October 18th, 2019
